When you are single there comes a point when you start dating people to find out the perfect partner. There are chances that you met many people in-between before meeting the perfect one. Therefore, it becomes very important that you prepare yourself a bit for your first date. Preparing yourself for the first date doesn’t mean that you rush to a beauty salon and get a makeover, but it means that you prepare yourself mentally. At times, when we meet someone for the first time, in nervousness and confusion we end up saying something which we regret later. Your single statement or that specific question becomes the main reason behind the failure of your date. Here, we are sharing some questions and statements that you should avoid saying to your man on your first date.
I want to have many kids after marriage: This is your first date with him. You both hardly know each other and telling him that you want to have many kids after marriage might make him uncomfortable. This is not the right time to discuss kids as you are moving too fast. It is better to discuss yourself, your interest, try to know more about him. So, the first date is more about knowing each other well, instead of planning your family after marriage.
Discussing your ex: He is not here to know about your past relationship or your ex. He is not interested in his details or how annoying he was or why you quit that relationship. There is no need to discuss this topic on your first date unless he put up any question related to your past relationship. He is more interested to know about you, instead of knowing about your past relationship.
I think you are the one: This is your first date and you are going too fast. Saying this on your first date to him might freak him out. Might be he is not ready to listen to this or might be he is not mentally prepared for it. So, it is better to keep this statement for some other meeting, avoid saying this on your first date. No matter how much you liked him, still saying this on your first date might spoil your date.
Asking about his salary: This is not the right time to discuss money matter. Please keep your money thought out of the table for your first date at least. This is your first date and discussing his salary or savings on your first date might give him an impression that you are more interested in his money instead of him as a person. Besides, discussing money and saving is a more serious topic, so you should not discuss this on your first date.
Wow’ that guy is really handsome: When you are on your first date, it is important that you stay focused and enjoy your date. Never check out people around you and make such comments in front of him. It will give him an impression that you are not serious about this relationship or you don’t like him. The moment you start rolling your eyes all around to check out people, he will surely be going to notice this. Therefore, it is better to stay focused and enjoy the moments with him.
Inviting him in family function: This is not the right time to invite him to the family function or wedding of your cousin. This is too fast and too early to ask him so. It might give him an impression that you are too eager for marriage that’s why you want him to meet your whole family members. Therefore, it is better to keep this question for some other time rather than asking it on your first date.
Discussing your business proposals: Don’t forget that you are on your first date, not on the first business meeting. He is not your client or business partner with whom you are discussing your business goals or your business proposal. This way you will ruin your first date. Discussing business proposal or asking about funds or investment from him on your first date is really a bad idea.
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