You never want that your relationship will suffer or it will go through a bad phase. You always want your relationship to be healthy and strong. But, this is also true that things never remain same in a relationship as well. You face ups and downs in a relationship and life as well. There are a few things that could prove fatal for any relationship. Here are five things you should avoid when your relationship is suffering.
Complaining about things: When you are facing a bad phase in your relationship, don’t complain anything or say anything negative about your relationship. It is always better that you avoid pointing out bad things or wrong things about your partner and your relationship. It will spoil the things more and make the situation worse. It will hurt your partner and you both will develop more negative feelings about this relationship.
Fighting over old things: This is something most of us do when we fight with each other. Don’t drag old issues during your fights. It is not good to fight over old and dead topics. It is always better that if you are annoyed with something, in your arguments focus on that specific point only, rather than bringing old issues into this conflict.
Not listening to your partner’s concern: No matter how angry you are with your partner or how bad you are feeling about anything, but if your partner comes to you with some issue, then never avoid listening to his/her issue. If he/she is something to you share some concern that means it holds some certain value and importance. If you behave indifferently, then he/she will assume that you are not bothered about your partner and his/her problems.
Comparing your partner: This is one the common mistake most of the couples do. You compare your partner with others. It will make the situation more complicated. Your partner has his/her own identity and qualities. Comparing your partner with some will give them an impression that you are not happy what they are. Therefore, it is always better not to compare your partner with anyone.
Blaming your partner: If you are among those who feel happy and satisfied after blaming your partner for anything wrong happens to you. It is alright to share your views and giving your opinion, but blaming your partner for everything is totally wrong. You should always try to find out the solutions to your problems, instead of playing the blame game.
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