Are you dating a possessive guy? Do you think that he is overly possessive and jealous of times? We all are possessive and at times behave like the typical jealous. Jealousy and a bit of possessiveness are common when you are in a relationship, but too much of possessiveness can make the things worse and suffocating for you. You feel good because somebody is possessive about you, but it could be dangerous as well if you are being ruled by your partner. At times, we don’t understand the difference between caring and possessive and mix both badly. But, being overly possessive is not good for you and your relationship as well. If you are not very sure that he is overly caring or possessive, then we are here sharing some signs with you to identify that you are in a relationship with the possessive man.
He can’t control his temper: If he finds something irritating or you did something which annoyed him, he just can’t control his anger. He just shouts at you or bang the door or did something really aggressive to show his anger. Even small things like attending calls of other males, staying late in the office or spending time with your friends can make him angry easily and he just screams at you.
He tries to control you: He always tries to control you and your actions. He always tries to make you feel that he can make better decisions than you and he is very concerned about you. Whenever you go out or want to meet your friends or go shopping or even to meet your cousins he always tries to be with you and accompany you wherever you go.
He stalks you: Your partner keeps an eye on everything you do. He checks your messages, logs in your social media account, read your chat and messages with your friends, checks your phone and calls records. He doesn’t miss even a single opportunity to check your phone and messages. He always checks your emails and social media accounts when you are not around.
He shows needy and clingy: He loves you so much, but most of the time he behaves so needy and clingy. He always shows that he can’t live without you and you are the only friend and source of happiness in his life. You are the center of his life and he doesn’t need other friends in his life as he is over occupied with you and your thoughts. This is not just the sign of neediness, but he always shows his anger saying that you are center of his life and he can’t imagine his life without you.
No personal boundaries: For him, there is nothing as such a personal space in a relationship. He doesn’t believe in personal space and freedom in this relationship. For him, everything should be shared. He always tries to occupy you and your time so much that you hardly get time or yourself or other things, which you love to do in life.
Control your decision making: He always tries to control you by controlling your decision making. He not just only gives you suggestions, but he always ensures that you will follow his instructions and his words. He never let you make any decision on your own, rather he always tries to control your decisionmaking process.
Dislike you praising someone: Have you ever noticed that your praiseworthy comments about someone and especially about your males friends or any other male make him uncomfortable and he can’t just digest that you praise some other man in front of him. Talking about others and especially about your other male friends irritates him always.
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