Sharing your life and staying with someone is really a big thing. It is not a simple decision, which you can make quickly or overnight. Marriage is the biggest step and word towards giving your relationship a new meaning. You can’t understand the depth of this word unless you don’t get into this beautiful yet complicated relationship. Marriage is merging of two different people and two different families. It might be that you are in this relationship from a long-time and planning to take the next big step, but still have some doubts. Here are some points, which you should consider to get rid of your doubt and take the next big step of your life.
Similar values: Being married doesn’t mean that you agree with everything and you think and act like a replica. But, it means that you have similar values. You think alike on major things like religion, humanity, family, friends and other basic and important things of life. It is really difficult to spend rest of your life with someone who has a different mindset and who has different core values.
Supportive and understanding: To stay happy in any relationship the basic requirements are your partner should be supportive and understanding. If she always supports you and inspires you to achieve your dreams and excel in life, then definitely she is just perfect for you. You always need someone who is supportive and understanding. You never wish for a partner who doesn’t understand you and your thoughts.
Respects you: This is another important trait to look when you are taking this big decision. Giving you respect doesn’t mean that she should obey your words blindly. But, it means that she has faith in your thoughts and ideas and she believes in you. She always understands what you want. She gives importance to your words and opinions.
Your relationship is her priority: This relationship is her utmost priority. She can go to any extent for the sake of this relationship. She understands the importance of this relationship and gives value to it. You are the single main important person in her life and she is always available for you. Whenever you are in bad mood or you want to share something with her, she is always there to listen to your thoughts.
She is open for change: She is not the one who always wants to change you and make changes in your habit, attitude, dressing sense and other things, but she is the one who is open to change. She is not hesitant to adopt new things. She is always open to new ideas and new things. She never forces anything on you, rather happy to experiment and experiment new things.
Value her identity: She is not argumentative, but she has her own identity. She is mature enough to make her own decisions and handle things at her own level. She doesn’t need approval and support before initiating something new or doing something. She knows how to take care of things. She doesn’t turn everything into clashes to prove her right, but speak her mind in a constructive way.
Clear about her future: She has clear thoughts and vision about her future. She knows what she wants from her life, and also knows how to achieve her dreams. She is not confused about her future. She is clear about her future goals and life, be it personal or professional. She can take stand for it and fight for her dreams and you as well with rest of the world.
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