Marriage is a very important decision of life and you should not take it till the time you are not mentally prepared for it. Generally, most of us believe that the moment you turn the 20s, you just enter into the age where you should get hitched. If you are not getting married in your early 20s or mid-20s, then you will not find a suitable match for yourself. Is it really that important to get married in the 20s only? Is it really true that if you will not get married in your 20s, you will not find a good match? Actually, that’s not true, getting married in your 20s is just too early. In most of the cases, you are not mentally prepared for marriage, but you are forced to do so. There are many other reasons which also make you believe that you should not get married in your 20s and wait till you are mentally prepared for it. Here, we are sharing six reasons why you should not get married in your 20s.
You are just out of your college: You have just completed your graduation or any other professional course. You are just over the examination fever and other tensions. This is the time to focus on your new job and build a career instead of focusing more on marriage. This is time to know more about interests, indulge in some hobbies, experiment something new in life instead of getting married and settled down so early.
Take a risk: This is the only golden period when you can take a risk with your career. You can devote extra hours in your office or if you are not happy with your current job you can easily think to switch your job or start something of your own. But, all this you can’t do after getting married as after marriage you think about your family first instead of taking a risk in your career.
Travel solo or with friends: This is not the point that you can’t travel after marriage, but the things will not be same. You should travel solo or with friends to know everything from your point of view. To experience something of your own and build your memories and experience. It will be a different experience altogether. Traveling with the spouse is different from traveling with friends. So, enjoy your bachelorhood with your friends.
You can still wait: You are in your 20s only, so you can wait a little bit more to find the perfect partner for yourself if you are not happy with the proposals you are getting for marriage. There is no hurry for you get married on the first come first served basis or as soon as possible. So, you can wait till the time you find the right partner for yourself.
Be financially stable: Marriage is not just about emotional connection and other responsibilities, but is also a financial responsibility. You need to have some extra money in your bank account as emergency funds always. You never know when you need extra money to bear the sudden expenses. Besides, you will notice that there is a sudden increase in your monthly expenses after marriage because now you are spending for two and more and even you are required to save for two and more as well. So, save some money in advance and get financially stable before getting hooked.
No hurry for kids: When you are in your 20s there is no biological pressure on you to have kids soon. You are not under any kind of mental or societal pressure to have kids soon. So, if you are not getting married just because your biological clock is giving you signals, then you can still wait for some more time for the right partner instead of getting married at the right time.
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